Dcn. Gauthier Vincent
I have greatly benefited from being in a spiritual direction myself for most of my adult life, and I now feel privileged to help others as a spiritual director. Over the years, I have accompanied different people on their spiritual journey, from current and retired business executives to church ministers and recovering addicts, men and women, and Catholic and Evangelical Christians. I am a husband of 30 years and a father of 7 seven children. An ordained minister (Deacon) in the Roman Catholic Diocese of Bridgeport, CT, I also serve as deputy chaplain in the Order of Malta. My professional career has been mostly in Banking and Management Consulting.
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Available for New Directees
Spiritual Director
Deacon
Background
I was born and raised in Paris, France. I met Jesuits as student in Paris and started spiritual direction then. I came to the US in 1990 to work for the World Bank in Washington DC. This is where my wife Valerie and I met. We have 5 grown up children and 2 teenagers, no grandchildren yet. Over the years, we lived in Boston, San Francisco, Hong Kong, London, and Stamford, CT. I have worked in Finance all of my professional career and have always striven for a sense a unity between work, family and prayer. In 2008 I was ordained as a permanent deacon in the Roman Catholic Church. In 2015, I started a formation in spiritual direction at Fairfield University and I have loved every minute of this ministry. I am a cancer survivor, a martial artist (judo) of 40 years, and an avid reader (mostly on the topic of spirituality)
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Current Position
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Deacon - St Thomas More church in Darien CT previously for 10 years at Our Lady Star of the Sea.
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Volunteer Spiritual Director with Pivot Ministries (a Christian Rehab Center) in Bridgeport, CT
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Spiritual Director Murphy Center for Ignatian Spirituality, Fairfield University
Education & Formation
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BS, MS, Engineering, Ecole Nationale des Ponts et Chaussées, 1989
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BA, Institut des Sciences Politiques de Paris, 1990
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MBA, Sloan School of Management, Massachusetts Institute of Technology, 1995
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Ordained to the Permanent Diaconate in the Roman Catholic Church in 2008
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MA in Religious Studies, Sacred Heart University, 2010
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Certificate in Spiritual Formation, Fairfield University, 2017
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Certificate for 19th Annotation Retreat Practicum, Fairfield University, 2020
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EXPERIENCE:
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Serving the Church as a deacon at Our Lady Star of the Sea church, Stamford for 10 years and now St Thomas More church in Darien CT. I serve at mass, preach the gospel, celebrate baptisms, facilitate men’s groups, visit the sick, etc
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A deputy chaplain in the Order of Malta since 2011
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A volunteer spiritual director with Pivot Ministries (a Christian Rehab Center) in Bridgeport, CT
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A spiritual director since 2015 (in training from 2015-2017) and directing 19th annotation retreats since 2020
Memberships & Listings​
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Order of Malta - Deputy Chaplain
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College of Directors Murphy Center for Ignatian Spirituality, Fairfield University
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Area of Interest
Work and Prayer, Contemplative Prayer, The Spiritual Exercises in Everyday Life, the Spirituality of Addiction & Recovery
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Services
Virtual and In-Person
As a Spiritual Director & Retreat Director
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